Colorado Springs Dissolution of Marriage

 

Home
Common Law Marriage
Self Help - Family Law
Consultation
Email Attorney
Maps & Directions
Attorney Vita

COLORADO SPRINGS TRIAL LAWYER
experienced and professional attorney - 30+ years private practice in Colorado state and municipal courts

ROBERT D. GUSTAFSON
  ATTORNEY AT LAW
6538 Charter Drive
Colorado Springs, CO 80918-1335

 

Phone (719) 260-1002
Fax (719) 260-1003  *  Toll Free (800) 410-1002
Family Law Attorney
Colorado Springs, Colorado      map
Attorney Vita
Business Hours

WELCOME
I appreciate your interest
perhaps I'll become  your attorney

Email
Attorney

 
Page Index Consultation Terms Fees * Costs Retainer Docs Directions Maps Travel * Trade Area
COLORADO SPRINGS DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
Colorado Springs, El Paso County, Colorado
Pikes Peak Region  *  Surrounding Colorado Counties  *  Southern Colorado  *  Front Range  *  Continental Divide  *  Eastern Plains
representation inquiries are invited & welcome * public questions seeking free advice or information declined * consultation terms
 attorney does not accept installment payments  *  full payment is due at the time attorney is retained  *  major charge cards accepted
 

 

NOTICEAttorney is not accepting new family law cases at this time.  PLEASE DO NOT CALL.
Refer to detour picture links to find a lawyer.
feel free to check back to this webpage at a later date - thank you for your interest

  HOMEPAGE INDEX
COLORADO SPRINGS DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE

 

Ethics Warning Legal Terms Common Law Marriage
Legal Residence Legal Separation Annulment - Invalidity Grounds
Mandatory Discovery
Case Management by the Court
Procedure e-Filing
Spouse Removal Demeanor
Custody & Visitation Allocation of Parental Responsibilities
Parenting Time Child Support Alimony Court Preparation
Fees & Costs - Award or Denial Self Help Clinics Property - Classified & Division
Domestic Violence and Abuse Remedial Treatment SAFEHOUSE
Recovery Workshops Client Document Management How Do We Do This
Realistic Time Frames
General Information
worth reading
New Relationships Explicit Images
ATTORNEY'S FEES AND COSTS Do I Need an Attorney? Mediation Arbitration

 

links - qualifying income - fee relief resources   **   link - gov't child spt enforcemt offices  
ATTORNEY POLICIES
 Cases Outside Colorado Springs - Travel
 No Pro Bono Assistance  *  No Installment Payment 
 Legal Advice Limited to Clients - Not General Public
 
Representation Now - Another Attorney or Self
 
Attorney Representation & Declined Matters
 
Post Decree Representation
 

Dissolution of Marriage Colorado Springs - declaration of invalidity - aka annulment, allocation of parental responsibilities - fka child custody, parenting time - fka visitation, spousal maintenance - fka alimony, child support enforcement, spousal maintenance enforcement, alimony enforcement, property division, debt allocation, domestic abuse restraining orders and domestic violence criminal defense.


        It exists in Colorado.  If you are common law married, to end the marriage you must file for dissolution of marriage - the marriage is as lawful as if you had become married before a minister, judge or magistrate.  Please refer to the Common Law Marriage page for more detailed information.


        Either the husband or wife must be a legal resident of Colorado for at least 90 days before you can file for dissolution of marriage.  Legal residency, called domicile, is not the same as simply living here.  A person acquires legal residence by having significant contacts with the state.  One party must intend to permanently reside here, or return here after all travels are done.  Some of the objective indicators are: Colorado driver's license, Colorado automobile registration, paying Colorado state income taxes, registration to vote in Colorado, banking in Colorado, & home ownership or having executed a lease.  

        In Lyons v. Eagan, 110 Colo. 227, 132 P.2d 774, the Colorado Supreme Court quoted with approval from Rapaljae & Lawrence's Dictionary the following: "The distinction between mere residence and domicile must be borne in mind.  The former is used in law to denote that a person dwells in a given place; the latter is the legal home of a person, or that place where the law presumes that he has the intention of permanently residing although he may be absent from it."  Put simply, the concept is "ET Phone Home - Hooome."

        Legal residence is required.  If neither the husband nor the wife are a Colorado legal resident, Colorado courts do not have the power to grant a dissolution of marriage.  If you are not a Colorado legal resident and have no intention of becoming a Colorado legal resident, you must seek a dissolution of marriage in your home state.

        To be a Colorado legal resident, military personnel must claim Colorado as their home of record.  If Colorado is not presently the home of record, Form DD-2058 affidavit of residency may be found at a military finance office or refer to above link for PDF file.  Free Acrobat Reader  The form must be filed with the military finance office to cause Colorado state income taxes to be withheld.

        Counsel has had military clients inquire whether they could file the Form DD-2058, temporarily claim Colorado as the home of record while the dissolution of marriage case is pending, then switch back to a state which has no state income tax.  NO.  That will jeopardize the court's jurisdiction and validity of the decree.  This attorney will not participate in subterfuge.


DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
 
LEGAL TERMS
 
CRS 14-10-103
Alimony
is called spousal maintenance
Annulment
is called declaration of invalidity
Custody
is called allocation of parental responsibilities

 
Divorce
is called
dissolution of marriage
I frequently use the term divorce because that's the familiar term
Separation
is called legal separation
Visitation
has been incorporated into the concept of parenting time
These are merely labels - a psychological attempt to take some of the conflict out of family law proceedings.
don't let labels confuse or scare you
Attorney Fees & Costs Attorney Travel Time & Mileage Client Fact Sheets - Case Preparation Colorado Revised Statutes


        The only grounds in Colorado are incompatibility; we are a no fault state. CRS 14-10-106   The term used in your case will be that the marriage is irretrievably broken.  In other words, you can't patch up the marriage, even with counseling.  You need not and will not be allowed to tell the court the "bad things" your spouse has done. Under Colorado law, fault is not admissible except in very limited circumstances in disputes involving children.

        The name of a third party having an affair with you or your spouse is not admissible. Naming a third party in a dissolution of marriage is a misdemeanor (crime) punishable by a $1,000 maximum fine and or 90 days maximum jail. 

        Breach of contract to marry, alienation of affection, criminal conversation and seduction (adultery lawsuits) are not possible in Colorado. Even threatening to bring an adultery civil lawsuit is a crime punishable as indicated above. CRS 13-20-201, et. seq.
        CRS 13-20-201 - Legislative Declaration
        CRS 13-20-202 - Civil Causes Abolished - "Heart Balm" Statute
                 breach of promise to marry, alienation of affections, criminal conversation & seduction
        CRS 13-20-203 - Breach of Contract to Marry not Actionable - "Heart Balm" Statute
        CRS 13-20-204 - Contracts Made in Settlement of Claims Void - "Heart Balm" Statute
        CRS 13-20-205 - Unlawful to File Pleadings - "Heart Balm" Statute
        CRS 13-20-206 - Unlawful to Name Co-Respondent
        CRS 13-20-207 - Co-Respondent Disclosure Prohibited in Testimony
        CRS 13-20-208 - Penalty - $1,000 Fine and/or 90 Days Jail


        One of you will file a petition asking the court to dissolve the marriage and decide the issues of parental responsibility allocation, parenting time, child support, spousal maintenance, division of property and division of debt.  That person will be called the petitioner. 

        Don't know the present whereabouts of your spouse?  It is better to personally serve the spouse, but if he / she can not be found, service may be completed by publication.  An affidavit of good faith  effort to locate must accompany the motion to publish, including efforts to skip trace.  It may be necessary to utilize the services of a private investigator to locate the spouse.  Publication is the last resort.  Court orders may be subject to collateral attack and publication vests the court with in rem (subject matter) jurisdiction only - limitation of the court's powers.

attorney has SKIP TRACING capabilities in litigation cases or a PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR may be required
NOTE: attorney accesses databases only during litigation preparation - not available to the general public

        The petition and a summons will be served upon your spouse.  The summons merely tells your spouse he or she is being sued for dissolution of marriage.  Service means that the papers will be handed to your spouse, or perhaps published in the newspaper under limited circumstances.  Due process (fairness) requires you to inform your spouse that you are requesting a dissolution.  Service of process on an average costs between $35 and $50, but can vary.  If your spouse is willing to sign a paper saying he or she received the legal documents, you can use the mail and there is no charge for service of process.  That is called waiver and acceptance of service of process.  Spouses usually don't sign; I don't recommend attempting waiver of service.

        The person who is sued will be called the respondent.  He or she is required to file a response with the court.  Other than the difference in the filing fee, it does not matter who is the petitioner and who is the respondent.  It is not a race to the courthouse.

        After filing and service of process on the respondent, by law there is a mandatory 90 day waiting period before the dissolution of marriage can be finalized.  This is a cooling off period.  CRS 14-10-106

        Upon commencement of the lawsuit, the following injunction enters automatically by operation of law.  CRS 14-10-107

AUTOMATIC TEMPORARY INJUNCTION - BY ORDER OF COURT, YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE ARE:

1. Restrained from transferring, encumbering, concealing, or in any way disposing, without the consent of the other party or an order of the Court, of any marital property, except in the usual course of business or for the necessities of life, and requiring each party to notify the other party of any proposed extraordinary expenditures and to account to the Court for all extraordinary expenditures made after the injunction is in effect;

2. Enjoined from molesting or disturbing the peace of the other party; and

3. Restrained from removing the minor child or children of the parties, if any, from the State of Colorado without the consent of the other party or an order of the Court.

4. Restrained without at least fourteen days advance notification and the written consent of the other party or an Order of the Court, from canceling, modifying, terminating, or allowing to lapse for nonpayment of premiums, any policy of health insurance, homeowner's or renter's insurance, or automobile insurance that provides coverage to either of the parties or the minor children or any policy of life insurance that names either of the parties or the minor children as a beneficiary.

        If the facts warrant, the court may grant a request to actually impound assets or money and take them out of the control of yourself or your spouse.

        If you have children, in El Paso County both the husband and wife will be ordered to attend one parenting class during which a video will be shown.  You need not attend together.  It does not matter whether you agree on all issues regarding the children or not; the parenting class is mandatory before final decree enters.

        In the filing fee, Petitioner pays the cost for both parties ($40 total - $20 each)  
        Attorneys and mental health professionals appear to answer questions.  Their time is volunteered without compensation and they will not accept referrals from the class.  Professionals don't contribute to your expense in this mandatory class but will offer assistance through the end of the program.
        Refer to the Self Help Clinics page for information regarding parenting class dates, times and location.

        You may have a temporary orders hearing, at which time the judge will allocate parental responsibility and enter orders regarding parenting time, child support, spousal maintenance, and who may use property or must pay debt temporarily while the case is in progress until final orders are entered.  That hearing is frequently about 2-4 weeks after filing.  The court's docket will determine how soon the hearing can be held after filing.

        The attorney will try to settle your case during the 90 day waiting period.  If agreements can be reached with your spouse, the attorney will prepare a detailed written agreement.  That agreement will eventually become part of the final decree (order).

        If a written settlement agreement has been made and filed:
        Children involved:
            Attorneys have entered appearance for both husband and wife:
                Court appearance is not required to finalize - decree may be taken by affidavit
            Only one party or neither party has legal counsel:
                Court appearance is required to finalize - a very brief hearing is held
        Children are not involved:
            Court appearance is not required to finalize - decree may be taken by affidavit 
            Whether either party or neither has an attorney is irrelevant - affidavit by decree is available

        If the parties can not agree, the case will enter the contested phases of the lawsuit.  This may include child custody evaluations, psychological evaluations in child dispute cases, or real estate or personal property appraisals and mediation.  Each party may be required to produce copies of billings, canceled checks, bank statements, pension or other financial documents.  Each party is required to file a detailed financial affidavit.  A disclosure certificate must be filed with the court reflecting that each have provided numerous financial documents to the other.

        It is possible that depositions will be taken.  That means questioning under oath in front of a court reporter who records all statements. Interrogatories may also be used. Interrogatories are written questions which must be answered in writing under oath.  In the discovery phase of the case, both parties have the opportunity to learn almost anything he / she wants to know to prepare his / her case.  The days of Perry Mason and surprises in court are gone.  Discovery is frequently expensive - cost can be reduced if both parties are open and voluntarily exchange financial documents.

        If the parties can't settle and must set court hearings, mediation is required before setting a contested final hearing.   For additional information, refer to the Mediation & Arbitration page of my primary website.

        Before temporary or final orders hearings, most judges require a pre-trial statement - a written statement which advises the court of agreements, contested matters, facts and law, parenting plan and other disposition requested by each party.  Counsel may attend a pre-trial or status conference in chambers at which time each side advises the judge what of agreements, disputes and issues - what the court fight will be about.  Some judges do not allow the parties into chambers during a pre-trial conference, others require the parties to be present.

        Any dissolution of marriage may be involuntarily set into the Dignity non-adversarial settlement and case management program emphasizing cooperation, disclosure and informal settlement.  The parties and attorneys meet with the judge in chambers 2-3 times over a 90-120 day period, commencing about 30 days after a petition is filed.  The court hopes an agreement and a decree are completed during that period.  A non-appearance affidavit is used to formalize the decree.  Parties with children are still required to go to the parent education class but no party is required to attend mediation.  The judge will set initial and subsequent conferences.  The initial conference may be used to adopt temporary orders.  Full financial affidavits are required.  Unless authorized by the judge, no motions may be filed.  Only one court-appointed expert on any contested issue is allowed. No formal discovery is authorized.

        After final hearing, if a litigant does not like the judge's decision, appeal must be filed in the Court of Appeals. Generally, a party can not state he / she does not like the ruling & ask for a new ruling or judge.

        If the parties can reach agreements, a dissolution of marriage can generally be completed in about 4 months from start to finish.  If the parties can not agree, it may take as long as 1 - 2 years.  Tell your attorney if you have plans to marry another in the near future, if the wife in the present marriage is pregnant, or if either alleges the husband is not the father of a child.

        Once a response has been filed, the case may not be dismissed (thrown out) unless both parties agree.  If both agree, the case may be dismissed at any time until the final orders have been entered.  If one party wants the decree, the other can not stop it.  Either may ask for court ordered marital counseling, but it probably will not be ordered if the other simply states the marriage can not be saved; he or she does not desire counseling.

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


MANDATORY DISCOVERY 
CASE MANAGEMENT BY THE COURT

C.R.Civ.P. 16.2
Adobe Reader version 5 or above required  

        Effective January 1, 2005 Colorado Rule of Civil Procedure C.R.Civ.P. 16.2 was adopted which provides for mandatory disclosure (discovery), limited motion practice and case management by the court.  Judges and magistrates are serious about Rule 16.2 obligations and judicial case management.  Once the case is filed, be prepared to disclose documentation and move the case forward in a timely fashion.  Refer to the above link to view the rule - it applies to the initial case and post decree matters.

        To assist in rapid case preparation, fact sheets have been made available on-line.  Open file password is given to a client or sent via email once retained.  Counsel asks clients to invest significant effort at commencement of representation to provide an understanding of the relevant facts and documents which must be disclosed.  Judicial case management has removed any dilly dallying - timely case preparation is now obligatory to avoid sanctions.


REMOVAL OF SPOUSE FROM HOME

        If removal of the spouse from the marital home is necessary, court orders may be obtained, and done without prior notice under some circumstances.  However, it is preferable to work out the residence without court orders.

        There is no pleasant or enjoyable way to physically separate.  If necessary, either party may hire an off duty police officer to be present and keep the peace while household goods are being physically moved.  You may attempt to hire an off duty law enforcement officer by calling the Colorado Springs Police Department or the El Paso County Sheriff's Office.  No officer will participate in deciding who may take or keep individual items, the officer will merely keep the peace.  Plan on $50+ minimum.  To provide for an efficient and rapid move, make certain sufficient manpower, truck space, dollies, pads, etc. have been arranged in advance.


 

        Annulment means the marriage never existed - it is now called declaration of invalidity.  This can be obtained only with very special facts, such as bigamy (concurrent multiple marriages), incest (marriage to a relative), fraud, duress (shotgun wedding) or surprise inability to consummate the marriage (sex).  Short duration (hours, days, weeks or months) is insufficient in and of itself in Colorado.  Most marriages do not qualify.

 

        The most common reasons to seek declaration of invalidity would be:

    1.  Spousal maintenance, fka alimony is the most likely reason.  A party was a recipient of a former spousal maintenance order in another family law case involving a third party obligor.  If this marriage existed, the fact of subsequent marriage would likely terminate the former spousal maintenance order.  If the pending "marriage" is declared invalid, the former spousal maintenance order remains in full force and effect because the court has declared that the pending "marriage" never lawfully existed.
    2.  Religious reasons.
    3.  A party simply wishes to be able to say he or she has never been married, or not count this "marriage" when computing number of former marriages.

 

        If children were conceived or born during the relationship, the court would address the issues of parental responsibilities allocation and parenting time (custody and visitation) and child support.  The court would also enter orders regarding mutually acquired property and debt.

 

        Many persons have inquired through the years and expressed a desire to annul the marriage.  The statute which sets forth the grounds for declaration of invalidity is linked above.  Up to date Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available on-line (refer to link) or are available in the local law library supported by the El Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for assistance in locating statute books

 

DOES MY MARRIAGE QUALIFY FOR ANNULMENT ?

If you hope to annul your marriage, read the above linked statute to determine whether grounds exist to invalidate your marriage.  If a reason exists which meets statutory criteria, you may proceed with declaration of invalidity.  If you do not fit one of the statutory reasons which would support a petition for declaration of invalidity, your marriage does not qualify and dissolution of marriage is your recourse.


        Where a lawful marriage existed, and the parties desire to keep the umbilical cord of the marital legal relation but live apart and deal separately with property and debt, the parties may file for legal separation.  After entry of decree of legal separation, the parties remain lawfully married, however are otherwise similar to single persons in their contractual dealings and property ownership.  

        The most common reasons to seek legal separation would be:

    1.  Health insurance or military benefits is the most likely reason.  If a spouse has a medical condition which would preclude procurement of a new insurance policy and the condition will outlast legal rights for temporary continued coverage, legal separation is the answer.  Due to the fact the marriage legal relation remains, an insurable interest remains under the other spouse's insurance policy.
    2.  Religious reasons.
    3.  For whatever family or personal reasons, a party simply wishes to avoid dissolution of marriage and severance of the marital relation.

        The procedures to obtain a legal separation are very similar to dissolution of marriage.  The major difference is that the legal bond of marriage is not severed.  Six (6) months after decree of legal separation entry, either party may convert to it dissolution of marriage.  CRS 14-10-120

        Remarriage to another person is obviously not an option while a person remains lawfully married under a decree of legal separation.  I generally advise against legal separation unless there is a good reason, such as a medical condition that requires continued medical care and medical benefits are available that will be lost in a dissolution of marriage, or perhaps for religious reasons.  Legal separation may be setting up subsequent additional lawyer fees and court fights.  Consult an attorney before filing for legal separation.


CHILD CUSTODY & VISITATION

        The court previously decided legal custody (decision making), physical child custody (where a child lived) and visitation ( the schedule upon which the non-custodial parent was entitled to see a child) based upon the best interest of the children.  In effort to eliminate the idea that children are items to be awarded in a dissolution of marriage, terminology has changed.  Custody and visitation no longer exist in Colorado except as is required for tax exemptions.  CRS 14-10-131.7  Refer to allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time below.


 Allocation of parental responsibilities  CRS 14-10-124

        Decision making for children remains an issue for the court to rule upon.  That is now called allocation of parental responsibilities.  The court addresses day to day decision making, as well as major decisions such as religion, medical care, education and general welfare issue which affect a child.

        Major decision making may be ordered jointly, or by the parent with whom the child primarily resides.  Provision is also made for future dispute resolution, such as submission to mediation, arbitration, or request for the court to review the disputes.  The court may order joint decision making without agreement of the parties, even over each parties' objection.

************************* *************************

Parenting time  CRS 14-10-124

        Parenting time encompasses court rulings regarding the children's primary residence and upon what schedule the other parent will have the children physically present with him or her.  The court continues to use the best interest of the child as the polestar.  CRS 14-10-123.4

        More emphasis is now placed on each parent assisting with children's obligations, such as homework, taking the children to activities, etc.  If possible, children should have liberal access to each parent - children have a right to know and love each parent.  Under limited circumstances, parenting time may be restricted or denied by the court if in a child's best interest.

        The court will consider denial of or failure to exercise parenting time in ruling upon decision making, primary physical residence and parenting time.

Parenting time enforcement.  CRS 14-10.5-104  The court may utilize:
       
Mediation - both voluntary or mandatory
        Family counseling
        Parental education
        Development of parenting plans, including monitored parenting time, supervised parenting time, or neutral drop-off and pickup locations
        Court ordered parenting time guidelines
        Alternative arrangements with respect to parental responsibilities

************************* *************************

Access to records
        CRS 14-10-123.8  Access to information pertaining to a minor child, including but not limited to medical, dental, and school records, shall not be denied to any party allocated parental responsibilities, unless otherwise ordered by the court for good cause shown.

************************* *************************

"Custody battle" with significant other or extended family member.  
        If you are a caretaking parent, be aware of the possibility of a "custody fight" if you:
                permit your boyfriend or girlfriend to cohabitate for 6 months or longer
                place your child(ren) with family a family member or close friend for 6 months or longer
        Similar to the annulment statute, there has been great interest in this particular statute.  Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available on-line (refer to link) or are available in the local law library supported by the El Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for assistance in locating statute books.

************************* *************************

Motion to modify - affidavit required
        A party seeking to modify a former order regarding custody or allocation parental responsibilities must submit an affidavit with the motion to modify.  Failure to do so will result in dismissal.  CRS 14-10-132

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


        Terminology sometimes appears confusing, however it may not seem so difficult when you understand the court will be ordering how major decisions affecting children will be made, and deciding separately who will be the primary caretaker for the children.

        Obtain a spiral notebook and keep brief notes regarding matters pertaining to the children, both agreements and disputes.  Date each entry, state only facts, not opinions, and make each entry brief.  Keep a record of parenting time requests, including dates & times, parenting time exercised, and relevant facts.  Your notes may be later used to refresh your recollection on the witness stand and will be used by the lawyer to prepare for hearings.  With notes, you may effectively rebut false claims of your spouse and you will have a record to build your case.

        Advise the attorney not only of favorable circumstances, but of facts which may be harmful to your case.  Allowing your attorney to be educated by opposing counsel in court is very damaging to your case.

        If you and your spouse are contemplating a "custody battle," seriously consider the matter in light of the effect it may have on your children.  Custody evaluation is likely and a guardian ad litem or special advocate may be appointed by the court to represent the best interests of your child(ren).  You must be prepared to commit substantial financial resources.

        Each party will be required to submit a written, detailed parenting plan.

        In every case where children are involved, this attorney recommends you consult a psychiatrist, psychologist or licensed social worker to learn more about what impact your family breakup will have on the children, and how to effectively cope.  Advance knowledge will likely assist you in neutralizing negative circumstances and minimizing injury to your children.

        Dissolution of marriage is a major life event, as is death of a loved one.  Do not feel stigmatized by seeking professional advice.  The fact you are inquiring into legal remedies indicates your marriage is in serous trouble, and perhaps your entire family structure.  Consulting a mental health professional is quite likely the best course of action you could take at this point.  If the children are exhibiting trauma or unusual behavior, by all means immediately consult a mental health professional.  As a governmentally subsidized agency, Pikes Peak Mental Heath bills fees on a sliding scale based upon income.  Many private therapists or counselors are also located in town.  You may not desire extended therapy, however don't hesitate to at least touch base, regardless of whether or not you have children.


        Hundreds or perhaps thousands of dollars may be at issue regarding any aspect of child support - any aspect may become a contest in any case.  Naturally, former litigants have taken support issues on appeal, and caselaw exists.

        If you have children, child support will be ordered by the court.  The dissolution of marriage child support statute is CRS 14-10-115 which sets forth criteria for establishing child support.  From the statute have sprung child support guidelines and  computation forms and tables (like tax forms) which will be used in setting child support, however the court may order a different amount if necessary to set a fair support figure.  The court will look at the ability of each parent to support and the needs of the children, including daycare expenses, health, hospitalization and medical insurance and deductible or non-covered medical expenses, continuing medical expenses, private school tuition if agreed or court ordered, post-secondary education or other financial circumstances relevant to your children.  Child support is not taxable income or deductible.  Issues to be addressed are deviation from guideline child support amount, relation back - retroactive child support, statutory interest, tax considerations and exemptions
        Refer to:
            1.  Hardcopy Legal Forms - local access to forms
            2.  Colorado Supreme Court Legal Forms - available by internet download
            3.  Colorado Supreme Court Child Support Guideline Computation Worksheets - on-line instructions & downloads or 
            4.  Child Support and Spousal Maintenance Software  (commercial site - cost involved & computer installation required)
            5.  Military and Civil Service Defense Employee Pay and Benefits - links to military and civil service defense employee pay and benefits.  This information is beneficial when an LES is not available to the spouse.
            6.  Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available in the local law library supported by the El Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for assistance in locating statute books.

        Up to 93 overnights, no support deduction is made for the obligation of the residential parent's child support obligation to the other parent. This computation is labeled Worksheet A - Child Support Obligation.

        Commencing at 93 overnights with the other parent, deduction is made for the obligation of the residential parent's child support obligation to the other parent.  This guideline computation is labeled Worksheet B - Child support Obligation - Shared Time. Depending on the actual contribution circumstances, even with 93 or more overnights, the court may use Worksheet A.

        If the parties have multiple children and one or more primarily reside with one parent while one or more children primarily reside with the other parent, two child support guidelines are calculated for the child(ren) with each respective parent, then set off to determine the net support owed by one parent to the other.

        Child support guideline computation worksheet labels do not affect the decision making process or scheduled overnights; they are merely mathematical computations.

        When computing the amount of child support, after born children not children of both parties will not be taken into consideration.  In later modifications, that means if either party has children born of a another relation subsequent to the child who is the subject of the support proceeding, no consideration will be given to the expense of raising or supporting those children, whether born in lawful wedlock or not.  CRS 14-10-115(7)(d.5)(1)

        Receipt of public assistance benefits must be reported at the time of filing the petition.  CRS 14-10-107.7  If public assistance is being received at present, it is important to obtain a support order as quickly as possible to limit potential liability of the obligor spouse.  If welfare has been received for a child, notice must be given to and it is likely the local governmental Child Support Enforcement Unit (CSE) will enter as a party in the case seeking reimbursement for current or past welfare expenditures.

        It is illegal to agree the "non-custodial" parent will not see the children in return for no payment of support. Do not attempt to pass this type of agreement by the court.

        Contest may arise regarding issues such as reasonableness of daycare, unemployment or underemployment and imputed income, tax exemption, health insurance and on-going medical deductible or non-covered expenses.  Medical expenses can include cosmetic orthodontia, medically necessary orthodontia, eye-care, dental treatment, and any uninsured single or chronic health problem.  Significant amounts of money can be involved.

        Current child support may be enforced by income assignment.  With this remedy, the obligor's employer deducts child support or spousal maintenance from the obligor's paycheck each payday and sends direct to the District Court Registry Fund or the statewide Family Support Registry.  This assures current payment so long as the obligor remains employed.  If one party requests an income assignment, it must be automatically granted pursuant to statute.  CRS14-14-111.5(2)(f)  The fund utilized depends upon the type of support (child support or spousal maintenance) and whether support is ordered in a dissolution of marriage case or paternity case.

Health, Hospitalization and Medical Insurance  

        Insurance Required. In child support orders issued pursuant to the dissolution of marriage child support statute (CRS 14-10-115) the court is required to provide for the child(ren)'s current and future medical needs by ordering either parent or both parents to initiate medical or medical and dental insurance coverage for the child or children through currently effective medical or medical and dental insurance policies held by the parent or parents, purchase medical or medical and dental insurance for the child or children, or provide the child or children with current and future medical needs through some other manner. At the same time, the court is required to order payment of medical insurance or medical and dental insurance deductibles and co-payments. Payment of a premium to provide health insurance coverage on behalf of the children subject to the order is to be added to the basic child support obligation and shall be divided between the parents in proportion to their adjusted gross income.

        Insurance Cost Excessive - Requirement Abated.  Where the application of the premium payment on the child support guidelines results in a child support order of fifty dollars or less or the premium payment is twenty percent or more of the parent's gross income, the court or delegate child support enforcement unit may elect not to require the parent to include the child or children on an existing policy or to purchase insurance.  The parent shall, however, be required to provide insurance when it does become available at a reasonable cost.

        Insurance Assignment.  
        CRS 14-14-112 requires that in all orders which direct the obligor to provide health insurance for any child, the court shall include a provision directing the obligor's employer to enroll such child in the health insurance plan and to deduct from the wages due the obligor an amount sufficient to provide for premiums for health insurance when such insurance is offered by the employer. 
        19-4-116(5) imbues the court in a paternity action with the authority to require a party to purchase or maintain a medical insurance policy to provide for the current and future medical needs of the child.  S.F.E., In Interest of T.I.E., 981 P.2d 642, 647 (Colo. App. 1998).  Similar to child support, where a party has been ordered to provide health insurance, assignment may similarly be entered.  CRS14-14-112(1).  However, if insurance is ordered the statute makes health insurance assignment mandatory.

Deviation from Child Support Amount Presumed Reasonable
Pursuant to Guideline Computations

        The trial court may deviate from presumed amount of support in CRS 14-10-115 according to the criteria in subsection (6) so long as it enters findings that allow an appellate court and the parties to discern the reasons for the deviation. In Interest of D.R.V., 885 P.2d 351 (Colo. App. 1994).  If the record ( paternity case) reflects the trial court considered the relevant factors for determination of support, CRS 14-10-115, (dissolution of marriage statute) there is no abuse of discretion.  Garcia, supra, In re Marriage of Krise, 660 P.2d 920 (Colo. App. 1983).

Relation Back - Retroactive Child Support

        Child support may be ordered retroactive to the later date of establishing different residences, filing the dissolution of marriage lawsuit or service of process upon the Respondent.  This is called retroactive child support or relation back.  Issues can be highly contested regarding whether the court enters an order for support during a period of time prior to the order, what period is covered, how much periodic support is ordered and terms of repayment.  Once a support order is entered, each installment becomes a judgment the day it becomes due.  The court may not later modify the amount of support or deny the obligee any lawful remedy.

        Child support can be efficiently enforced. Refer to the Support Enforcement page of my primary website for additional information regarding income assignment for support arrearages, garnishment of income or bank accounts or enforcement by contempt of court (jail). 

Period of Child Support Obligation

        Colorado courts will order child support until emancipation.  For purpose of child support obligations, emancipation under Colorado law is presently the child’s 19th birthday, death, marriage, or enlistment in the U.S. military armed forces. A child may otherwise become earlier emancipated, and emancipation may not in fact occur at age 19 - such as a child with disabilities.

Statutory Interest

        Statutory interest on child support is 12% per annum from the date each installment was due. CRS 14-14-106, CRS 5-12-101.  Once an order has entered, obligee (person receiving child support) has a right to statutory interest. If an obligor defaults on a child support installment after entry of order, obligee is entitled to statutory interest.  If the court relates back in an order and , at issue may be whether the obligee is entitled to statutory interest at 12% per annum on retroactive support arrearages. 

Tax Considerations and Exemptions

        Child support is not taxable income or deductible.
        The court may allocate daycare federal tax credit.
        The court may allocate the federal income tax dependency exemption, and further may order each parent to execute necessary forms declaring that either such parent will not claim the children as dependents.  CRS 14-10-115(14.5) - guidelines (dissolution of marriage), and CRS 19-4-129 (paternity) require the court, unless otherwise agreed by the parties, to allocate the right to claim dependent children for income tax purposes between the parties in proportion to their contributions to the costs of raising the children.

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


        Alimony exists in Colorado - just a different label - spousal maintenance. 

        The person seeking spousal maintenance must first establish need, and if established, then the court will look at the finances of each party in setting the amount and duration.  The court need not order any maintenance or may award up to lifetime.  The shorter the duration of the marriage, the less likely the court will order maintenance, or the shorter the duration of award.  The court seeks fairness. Each marriage is different, and the award or rejection of spousal maintenance depends on the facts of each case. 

If the parties combined annual gross income does not exceed $75,000, Colorado law provides a statutory guideline computation for temporary spousal maintenance.  The courts will use the statutory formula.  CRS 14-10-114(2)

There are no guidelines or computation forms for permanent spousal maintenance. 

        To compute spousal maintenance, each parties' income must be known.  For information regarding Military and Civil Service Defense Employee Pay and Benefits refer to the link.  This information is beneficial when an LES is not available to the spouse.

        Spousal maintenance receipt is taxable income. Payment is tax deductible.

        Regarding persons seeking spousal maintenance or seeking to avoid alimony.  Failure to request permanent spousal maintenance in the petition for dissolution of marriage will likely invalidate the claim.

Case on point - In re Marriage of Boyd, 643 P.2d 804 (Colo. App. 1982)
        Husband sought spousal maintenance from the wife
        Husband filed a motion for temporary spousal maintenance which was heard, but 
        Husband failed to request permanent spousal maintenance in his petition for dissolution of marriage
        Husband failed to file a motion to modify the petition to include a request for permanent spousal maintenance
        Husband failed to request a continuance at final orders hearing seeking time to file a motion to modify the petition to include a request for permanent spousal maintenance.
        Permanent spousal maintenance was denied to husband.  Where allegations of the husband's petition did not constitute a request for permanent maintenance, the petition did not provide fair notice to the wife that she was expected to defend against a claim for permanent maintenance.  Husband could have sought to amend his petition to include a request for permanent maintenance. C.R.Civ.P. 15(a); cf. Varner v. District Court, 618 P.2d 1388 (Colo. 1980).  Trial court did not abuse its discretion in denying the request to consider the issue of permanent maintenance.  see Bryant v. Hand, 158 Colo. 56, 404 P.2d 521 (1965).
        In the Boyd case, the husband happened to be the party seeking spousal maintenance.  It is irrelevant whether which party (husband or wife) is seeking permanent maintenance - the Boyd case exists.
        Moral of the story.
                If you are the prospective obligee - if you don't ask, you can't get.  Request the kitchen sink in your petition - you can always waive an issue in settlement negotiations..
                Or - if you are the prospective obligor, be silent until final orders hearing, then object and raise the Boyd case as a defense.  
                Unusual issue, but it can arise and be defensible.


        Separate property is generally property acquired before the marriage or received during the marriage by gift or inheritance.  Unless the owner has titled the property jointly or made a gift of it to the spouse, separate property will not be subject to division.  However, see below.  Although the court may not divide separate property, in practicality it may be necessary to sell to satisfy the award of marital increased value.

        Marital property is generally that which is acquired during the course of the marriage except as above.  Any increase in value of separate property during the marriage is considered marital; i.e.: home owned before marriage worth $90,000 at marriage, now worth $150,000 yields $60,000 marital property and $90,000 separate property.  Marital property is subject to division in dissolution of marriage.  The above simple example assumed home purchase by cash with no debt.  Secured debt would be an equity factor at the time of acquisition, marriage and dissolution of marriage.

         Separate debt is generally acquired before the marriage and not subject to award against the other spouse.  Reduction in separate debt can be allocated as marital property.  Debt incurred during the marriage is generally marital debt, even if incurred only by one spouse without the knowledge or consent of the other spouse, or if incurred without the other spouse's joint signature.

       The court will equitably divide marital property & marital debt.
Generally that is 50% each, however the court may divide otherwise if fairness and the facts of the case require it.  Equitable division does not necessarily mean equal division; either the husband or wife may be awarded more than 50% if the facts and circumstances make this equitable or fair.  Property, debt, child support and spousal maintenance weave together.

        If the parties are unable to agree on value or division of personal property, the court may order all personal property sold at auction.  Be reasonable - not greedy.

        Please refer to the Resources Links page of my primary website for assistance in placing values on your real property, personal property or motor vehicles.  Specific link designations are provided below.
               
Real Property
                        Real Property Appraisers
                        Real Estate Brokers
                        Real Property -
value, history, financing, insurance, rental housing
               
Personal Property Appraisers
                Motor Vehicle
                        Motor Vehicle Appraisers
                        Motor Vehicle Value -
(NADA Yellow Book & Kelly Blue Book) and history (Carfax)
                                On-line availability of yellow & blue books may alleviate need for appraisals
                                Parties tend to agree upon motor vehicle values with aid of the books

        Pensions, including military and PERA, are property subject to division if earned during the course of the marriage.  It is not necessary that a pension be vested or mature for the court to divide it.  Vesting is the right to take the pension if you left employment.  Mature is the right to receipt at present. If the marriage is over 10 years duration during creditable military service, the military will disburse the spouse's share direct to him or her if requested.  Numerous court rulings have interpreted the "10 Year Rule" which does not prohibit or deny the spouse's claim if the marriage was less than 10 years duration during creditable military service.  The "10 Year Rule" merely deals with whether the military will disburse a portion of the pension to the former service member and a portion to the former spouse, or whether all will be disbursed to the former service member and then he / she must disburse to the ex-spouse. 

        IMPORTANT NOTATION: For any loan you have taken or will take from family or friends, document the loan with a promissory note reflecting the loan date, initial principal amount, interest (if any), method of repayment (i.e.: installment or lump sum) and amortization (scheduled payment amounts and due dates.)  If you have borrowed items of personal property, make a writing reflecting the date or circumstances regarding return.  This documentation is admissible evidence if your spouse claims family or friends made a gift to you individually or jointly.  Lawyers see this dispute with some regularity - protect yourself now, even if after the initial loan date.  Clients may refer to the link to obtain a form Promissory Note.  Free Acrobat Reader Download

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


 
Mediation and Arbitration
Mediation Arbitration
primary website page - refer to links for information
 

Synopsis
How Do We Accomplish a Dissolution? - Realistic Time Frames

"I want what I want, I want it all and I want it now"  or  "On-Demand"

        The legal system hasn't achieved the fast food market level of efficiency and probably never will.  Probably never should.  Prospective clients want to know how long will it take to commence a dissolution of marriage and how long the process will take.

        There are two primary focal points in marriage dissolutions - finances and what to do with respect to the children.  The two most important documentary aspects of a dissolution are the financial computations used to arrive at settlement or litigation theory (pre-trial statement & brief) or the separation agreement (terms to be incorporated into the final decree if court fight can be avoided).  Comprehensible and concise computations are required to understand family finances and to draft a realistic settlement or litigation proposal.  

        A lawyer can not offer advice regarding support or division of the marital estate until he or she has an understanding of the family's finances, and understanding of family dynamics is necessary before formulating a parenting plan.  That's common sense.  Financial disclosure rules require an in-depth look at the family's financial circumstances at the time of filing.  If children are involved, a parenting plan must also be submitted.  Put another way, at the time of filing you must inform the court of the family circumstances and your proposal for relief - at least on an interim basis until final orders hearing.

        I have fact sheets located within my primary website to aid in understanding of family finances and dynamics and case preparation.  I ask the client to provide realistic valuation numbers regarding income and expenses, assets and liabilities and to be thorough in describing family circumstances.  I ask that the client invest time locating, organizing, copying and providing relevant documents at the time I am retained.  Income is determined from paystubs, LES or projected income capability.   Kelly Blue Book or NADA Yellow Book will be utilized to set motor vehicle values or if one party wants to be difficult, appraisal can be ordered.  If the parties are not in agreement, real property can be valued by appraisal or market analysis.  Unless the parties' real property will be sold and proceeds divided or if buyout is planned, unless it was recently purchased, appraisal or market analysis is a very good idea.  Business interests can be valued by a CPA if complex or if the parties do not agree.  Pensions are ascertained from plan provider documentation.  IRA, TSA, 401K, etc. are ascertained from family financial documentation, as are bank balances determined from bank statements.  A value can be set for every asset, right down to household goods.  If you can't agree on valuation of personal property or household goods, appraisal can be ordered.  Debt is determined from recent billings.  Numbers will be obtained - mutual disclosure and valuation stipulation is easier on the pocket book than discovery fights and appraisals.

        I use professional software to prepare child support guideline computations and child support arrearage computations.  I have drafted an interactive electronic spreadsheet to compute income and expenses for each party, presumptive temporary spousal maintenance as well as marital & separate property and debt.  

        The spreadsheet provides a detailed look at each party's income and projected expenses, impact of child support, spousal maintenance, pension payments and debtservice allocation.  Budgeted discretionary income (positive cash flow) or budgeted deficit spending (negative cash flow) will be identified for each party.  Proposal revisions can be made to achieve a projected budget which is workable for both parties; budget and projections are credible in court argument if settlement isn't possible.  

        Electronic spreadsheet will project asset and debt division.  It will reflect individual assets and debts, then identify total net marital property division dollar value and percentage awarded to each spouse based upon the client's numbers.  The spreadsheet will also reflect the required monetary transfer from one spouse to the other necessary to achieve an equal division of net marital property based upon the client's valuations and proposed division.  Equitable division does not necessarily mean equal division, but it's a good beginning point.  Revisions can be made to arrive at an equitable division.

        Separate property is not divisible under Colorado law, but a factor in determining spousal support need or ability and division of marital property.  Separate property will be identified and valued separately in the spreadsheet.  Increase or decrease in separate property value is marital property subject to division, and will be included in marital property computations. 

        In my practice, the electronic spreadsheet will be utilized heavily to ascertain family finances and settlement or trial posture.  To facilitate planning & conference during initial case preparation, spreadsheet computation draft .pdf file is emailed to the client.  It would be common to amend the client's preliminary financial scenario - client's initial plan is merely a beginning point subject to review when impact becomes obvious through computations.  Given the financial scrutiny, initial settlement proposal or pre-trial statement should be well within the ballpark of reason.  

        Seemingly complicated issues can be reduced to math, however human interpretation and perhaps oral argument in court remain.  The electronic spreadsheet computation format is understandable and brutally frank - it sheds light on financial areas which, in many cases, one party would prefer to be left dark, gray and somewhat confusing.  I find that when finances are clear to all parties, possibility of reasonable settlement is enhanced.  Using a rational mind, provisions which are acceptable to both parties can usually be drafted regarding the children.

         You feel the need for speed - how fast?  From the time attorney receives completed intake sheets and financial documentation, the dissolution of marriage can usually be prepared within 1 - 2 weeks.  I prefer to submit a separation agreement (settlement proposal) to the opposing party at or near the time of filing the petition or response if possible.  Settlement proposal is seldom accepted as first drafted, but changes shouldn't be significant if client has been realistic and has communicated with spouse or is aware of spouse's valuation estimates and goals.  Being aware of the spouse's position doesn't mean you agree; compromise or litigation will likely be required.  Initial financial scrutiny & settlement proposal method creates additional work for counsel and parties on the front end, but in this fashion we quickly determine whether settlement is a viable option or trial will be required.  If appraisals are not needed and if you and your spouse can be objective, figure about 3 - 4 weeks of hard work to achieve a final resolution, including transfer of real property ownership by quit claim deed or motor vehicles via powers of attorney.  More fees are incurred at the outset than if the case were commenced with a simple summons and petition, but if the case can settle it will ultimately reduce attorney's fees and costs in the final analysis.  It also reduces headaches, heartaches, anxiety and stress if the case can be concluded from the outset except awaiting the statutory 90 day cooling off period mandated by CRS 14-10-106.  If settled, decree can usually be taken in about 4 months from the time of filing and service of process.

        That's not "on-demand" or fast food mentality, but not a significant period if you and your spouse can be objective, realistic and reasonable.  In the interim, please don't plan a wedding to a new spouse, nor plan a buyout and refinance closing within a tight time frame.  If it's a court fight, plan to become quite patient.  

        Remember - the court's polestars will be the best interests of the children and fundamental fairness with respect to support, property and debt.  If you enter into court fights, final outcome will likely be somewhere in the same ballpark of reason we are seeking in the initial analysis.  Use good judgment when contemplating your initial "wish list" or revisions thereto.

Courtesy vs. Fighting and Negative Emotions

        1.   Do not fight with your spouse, physically or orally.  You will gain nothing, except to make your dissolution of marriage much more difficult or incur criminal charges.

        2.  You must disconnect the buttons which have caused you emotional distress in the past.  No one knows better how to press your buttons than a spouse.  You have commenced or are contemplating a dissolution of marriage - expect your spouse to play your buttons with more fervor than the "Phantom of the Opera."  Recognize your spouse is jabbing your all too familiar emotional sore spots due to his or her own negative emotions.  Do not give feedback; the jabs can be temporary if you don't feed the fight.  And... don't you become a concert pianist on the buttons.

        3.  You make the best decisions when you are rational and logical.  No one can exercise clear judgment when we are over emotional, over tired, ill (physical or emotional) or impaired by substance (Rx, illicit or alcohol).  Decisions you will face in your dissolution of marriage and in normal communications with your spouse are some of the most important you may ever encounter with long term consequences.  Resolve your emotions in another forum; not in your litigation or dealings with your spouse.

        4.  You have business to conduct with your spouse; treat the dissolution of marriage as such.  Establish your new relationship starting now.  Give your spouse the courtesy, dignity and respect you would give a stranger on the street.  Require the same be given you in return.

        5.  Guilt, I'm Not Whole and Public Perception.  You may experience guilt that the relationship didn't work out, and that you are not a whole person.  Find a way to recognize yourself as a whole person - others do.  A mainstream church pastor once expressed concern that his peers would view him with distain at an upcoming conference when they learned he was undergoing dissolution of marriage - Hawthorne's scarlet letter.  I told him I believed their response would be: "Gee, I'm sorry to hear that, now what's for lunch?"  There may be a great deal of reality in that.  The pastor later reported that lunch was good.  Dissolution of marriage is an opportunity to redefine your perception of yourself.

Children and Manipulation

        1.  Do not let children hear any derogatory or bad statements about your spouse, whether from you, family or friends.  Vent your emotions outside the presence of your children.  Your dissolution of marriage will create a degree of trauma for them; do not increase that trauma or cause emotional distress to your children needlessly.  This office will not represent you if you manipulate or unfairly make the children pawns.

        2.  The below listed complaints are frequently heard by attorneys. In El Paso County, an order to parents was likely entered when you filed your case.  If your spouse is engaging in any of the following behaviors, refer to that Order.  You will likely be able to stop this manipulation by contempt of court (jail) proceedings.

a.  Children must choose between the two of you.

b.  Attempting to turn the children against you by discussing your shortcomings, i.e.: denigrating, demeaning or making derogatory statements about you or permitting family or friends to do so in the presence of the children.

c.  Failure to continue with scheduled activities or school work during parenting time - time being used as a vacation from responsibilities for the children.

d.  Children being involved in setting, negotiating or mediating parenting time.

e.  Children being questioned regarding your activities, new assets, expenditures or romances.

f.  Spouse or significant other using illicit drugs during child care times.

g.  Children being forced to refer to step-parent or girlfriend / boyfriend as "mom" or "dad."

h.  Children being taken to a counselor or therapist without first obtaining the agreement of the residential parent.

i.  Other parent secreting or not informing you of his / her current address and phone.

j.  Discussion of the dissolution of marriage case or issues of the case with your children, whether parental responsibility, parenting time, child support or other financial issues.

k.  Children being shown documents related to the case.

l.  Children being brought to court.

m.  "No show" or "late show" at agreed times for parenting time exchange.

n.  Spouse arguing with you at exchange for parenting time.

o.  Step-parent or boyfriend / girlfriend being part of the transportation or child-care process during parenting time... significant other sticking nose into your business

p.  Lack of adequate clothing for parenting time or being returned in poor condition.

q.  Driving with the children under the influence of alcohol, drugs or medication.

r.  Failure to use legally mandated child restraints in motor vehicles.

        3.   Children, even very young, may likely attempt to manipulate the parents.  Separation is a particularly fruitful time given the guilt most parents are experiencing... a child's radar senses this.  Agree with your spouse that if either hears a disturbing report, you will call the other to inquire.  Agree neither will fly off the handle due to such an inquiry - a degree of unity remains necessary. Keep rules & discipline consistent. Understand children may attempt to manipulate, distort or extort. "No-way... not my children"... right.  Children need boundaries.

Children - Attorney Appointments

        I ask that children not be brought to the office unless requested by the attorney.  Family law matters are sensitive and not appropriate for children; they may understand more than we expect.  Also, many children have short attention spans.  Matters to be discussed will be of importance to you; the distraction of caring for a child will likely decrease the productivity of our time together.  Please make arrangements for daycare. If care is not possible, I work from my home and toys are available.  It's simply not a plan to include children in dissolution of marriage legal matters.

Cohabitation with Spouse

        Legally, you may cohabitate (live with) your spouse all during the dissolution of marriage, including through the date final orders are entered.  In practicality, it does not work

        1.  Living together will increase the emotional tension between you and your spouse.         

        2.  Domestic violence criminal charges may be brought on allegation alone with no supporting evidence.  Hello gray-bar hotel, no room service 'eh?  Refer to the any of the below links for additional information regarding potential domestic violence criminal charges or restraining orders.  Refer to the below links for additional information.
            a.   Domestic Violence Information - information pertaining to defense of domestic violence charges
            b.   Domestic Violence Criminal Charges - frequently charged domestic violence crimes
            c.   Domestic Violence Sentencing Summary
            d.   Civil Domestic Abuse Restraining Orders
            e.  Have I represented level headed clients who continued living under the same roof with the spouse against my advice to save money?  yes.  Have some consequently faced predictable but devastating domestic violence criminal charges and / or domestic abuse civil restraining order litigation?  yes.  Hopefully this rings home - don't attempt cohabitation.
 
        3.  One of you must move out, or plan on disagreements.  To that end, the person who moves out will need at least first month's rent plus security deposit, maybe last month's rent, staple groceries, adequate furniture / household goods and transportation.  Plan on the expense, regardless of who actually moves.  Financial arrangements for multiple residences are nominal in relation to criminal defense or restraining order defense, not to mention long term consequences of the paper trail left by such an allegation.  Throwing out your spouse with no money and nowhere to go is not wonderful, nor will it favorably impress a judge.  Use common sense - don't make or tolerate that demand or threat.

Negotiations

        1.  Conduct all negotiations with your spouse in a park or restaurant which is a public setting but offers a degree of privacy.  Never discuss an emotional issue in the privacy of your home or a totally secluded area.  Argument, possible assault or injury, criminal charges and injunction will be avoided.

        2.  If you and your spouse can not reach agreements in any particular discussion, recognize that you will not be able to agree and discuss the matter in 2 or 3 days when emotions cool down.  Do not continue to press a matter when you know you can't agree.  A court hearing may be necessary; courts decide fairly. Use court hearings for legitimate disagreement matters and avoid court battles over issues emblazoned by emotion.

Relationships and Sexual Intercourse

        Relationships and sexual conduct may not be admitted in court as evidence except under limited circumstances as pertains to court dispute regarding children.  However, if your spouse learns of it or you bring a member of the opposite sex near the spouse or children, negative emotions will result (major understatement).  That will likely translate to needless court fights and higher attorney fees for each of you even if there are no kids.  Be discrete, and do not live with a member of the opposite sex while your case is pending

        1.  Children experience some degree of trauma due to separation.  Remember, they did not participate in the decision to split the family unit. Do not expose children to friends of the opposite sex until the relationship is stable, and then introduce them gradually with a picnic, movie or some easy outing.

        2.  Naturally, children should not be exposed to sex.  Nor should they be left with a babysitter for frequent or extended periods, nor late night while you party or enjoy recreational activities.  These facts are admissible; use common sense.

        3.  Children, particularly young, will report your spouse's activities to you and will report yours to your spouse - pipeline.  Use common sense when establishing new relationships.

        4.  Mental health professionals will likely advise you that it takes approximately two years post decree to conclude the grief or healing process; I suspect closer to 9 months - a year & a half.  Books are available from the public library, just as counseling and recovery workshops are available.  It doesn't lessen your loss, but knowledge can aid understanding of the feelings you are undergoing.  I call it: "I'm crazier than a loon, but if I wasn't crazy, I really would be crazy."  A mental health professional referred to that cycle as "feeling and acting normally in an abnormal circumstance."  I have no expertise in the area; they do.  They use nicer phrases.  Temptation will be strong and will abound - be careful about entering into a significant relationship before you have concluded the grief process from this loss.

Property Issues

        1.  Close joint accounts.
                a. 
Close all joint liability or charge accounts immediately. Notify creditors by certified mail that you will no longer be responsible for future debt incurred by your spouse.  This includes accounts in an individual name and upon which the spouse has signed as co-maker or has charge privileges.  Send creditors one-half of the charge card of the spouse who will no longer have charge privileges, or close the account entirely if need be.  This includes utilities and checking accounts as your spouse may write bad checks.  Closing joint liabilities is simply good business and eliminates possible disagreement later.  It may be uncomfortable to discuss this with your spouse immediately.  You may believe excessive charging to be out of character for your spouse.  You may fear the finality this seems to bring.  Do it anyway & do it now - attorneys see this problem frequently.  Close all joint accounts immediately. ...twice written intentionally.
                b. 
Close all joint savings accounts, and divide the proceeds fairly.  If you anticipate problems, transfer the proceeds to a savings account in your name only, and hold (not spend) the proceeds until final disposition can be made.  It is easier to give the money to your spouse than to ask for it back.  This office recommends immediately after you have withdrawn the money, you convert the new savings account to an account where withdrawal is possible only upon the signature of both you and your spouse; check with your bank for availability.  Protect your savings.

        2.  Personal property division. If personal property has not been divided, do so immediately. 
                When you make division of personal property, divide as much as possible, and make one move.  Disagreements are caused when one party continually contacts the other requesting minor items of personal property.  Identify those items on which you disagree; counsel will negotiate or a court hearing may be necessary.  The goal is to identify & minimize those items which are contested. Don't sweat the small stuff; be flexible without giving up important matters.  If you take petty personal property issues to contested final orders hearing, a judge could easily order all property sold at public auction and division of proceeds.  Greed could backfire badly.

        3.  Estate planning
                Review wills, trusts or life insurance policies.  Your circumstances will be changing; you will need to amend beneficiaries or your entire estate plan.  You may also wish to review your needs for powers of attorney, child guardianship and conservatorship, a medical or surgical treatment declaration (life support) or anatomical gift declaration.  I do not practice probate or estate planning; contact your estate planning attorney.

************************* *************************
 

Explicit Photographs, Electronic Images or Movies
If the parties created explicit images during the relation, refer to link for information
If relevant, it's worth the time to read about "
Nudie Pics"
Has this really become a legal problem for multiple former clients?  yes
This issue can result in
registered sex offender status - quite serious

 
************************* *************************

Award of Attorney's Fees and Costs of Litigation

        In dissolution of marriage cases, the relevant statute is CRS 14-10-119.  The court may order payment toward attorney's fees as well as expert witness fees, guardian ad litem or special advocate, costs of genetic testing or other litigation costs.  Attorney's fees and litigation costs may be awarded for periods prior to commencement of the proceedings and subsequent to judgment.  

        Award or denial of attorney's fees and costs of litigation is in the nature of support.  Award is not to be used as a punitive action.  The Court must consider award or denial in light of the income and property of the parties in relation to one another, and must make findings as to the amount and reasonableness thereof.  Under some circumstances, a court may consider the actions of one party which directly increase the costs of litigation.

 

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


 

        Emotions run high when dissolution of marriage is contemplated or during the process of physical move out.  Be very, very cautious in dealing with your spouse at this critical time. If your situation is abusive, whether you are the victim or the abuser, immediately take all necessary actions to stop the abuse.  Conversely, never make a false report.

 

Statutory definitions
       
Domestic abuse - civil restraining orders
       
Domestic violence - criminal charges

 

BE AWARE THAT IF YOU OR YOUR SPOUSE DIAL 911
        Law enforcement will come even if you never speak (911 traps all phone numbers)
        One or both of you will likely be charged with a crime per state policy
        Police will arrest regardless of your desires or your spouse's desires
        If arrested, the person will be held in jail overnight without bond until he or she can be advised by the court
        Once a person initiates the police contact and charges are filed, the alleged victim no longer has the ability to withdraw criminal proceedings
        The DA Office has a no drop charge policy - jury trial is likely the only alternative
        Significant expense will be incurred in defense of a criminal case

 

BE AWARE OF THE FOLLOWING
       
You will be charged in a domestic violence criminal case if:
                a. You block your spouse's path of exit or movement (frequently standing in a doorway or in front of your spouse)  this is called ingress or egress
                b. You shove or touch your spouse in anger
                c. You throw items in anger or break property (even your own property)
                d. You threaten your spouse
                e. You argue with your spouse and swear
                f. You repeatedly insult, taunt, or challenge your spouse or communicate using offensively coarse language a manner likely to provoke a violent or disorderly response (in other words, your argue vehemently)
                g. You are ordered not to contact your spouse and you later do (even a phone call to see if he or she is ok)
                h. Without consent, you listen in on your spouse's conversations or tape record your spouse's conversations (felony punishable in the state penitentiary)
                i. You hang up the phone or pull the cord from the wall when your spouse is attempting to place a call
         Prosecutors will attempt to introduce prior transactions (domestic abuse incidents) in criminal trials - when deciding guilt, do you want a jury to hear this?
        No physical injury or evidence other than your spouse's statement is required
        Firearm ownership or possession becomes a thing of the past.  With a domestic violence conviction or a domestic abuse restraining order, attempting to purchase a firearm is a federal felony. If firearms are required for employment, say good-bye.
        Domestic violence criminal charges and injunctions are very serious

 

Refer to the below links for information regarding civil domestic abuse or criminal domestic violence proceedings.
        a.  Civil Domestic Abuse Restraining Orders and Emergency Protective Orders
        b.  Domestic Violence Information - information pertaining to defense of domestic violence charges
                Domestic Violence Criminal Charges - frequently charged domestic violence crimes
                Domestic Violence Sentencing Summary
        c.  Violation of a restraining order can be enforced by 
                1.  Criminal charges
                        a.  violation of restraining order - information regarding the criminal charge
                        b.  domestic violence information - information regarding prosecution
                        c.  domestic violence sentencing summary - information regarding sentencing
                        class M-2 or M-1 domestic violence offense
                2.  Contempt of court - information regarding civil proceedings for contempt of court

 

       Spying on the spouse or significant other.  Factual basis for felony stalking or domestic abuse restraining order is not limited to physical acts.  Electronic bugging devices or tracking devices (GPS) will support a felony criminal prosecution or restraining order. 

Refer to CRS 18-9-111(4) - criminal classification: (F-5) or (F-4)

Refer to People v. Sullivan, 53 P.3d 1181 (Colo.App. 2002)
        felony stalking conviction upheld for electronic GPS device on wife's car with downloadable chip

   In the context of felony stalking, (whether or not an intimate relationship, breakup, dissolution of marriage, separation, paternity allegation or domestic abuse restraining order litigation), the Sullivan rationale may likely extend to surreptitious installation and monitoring of a computer program which repeatedly reports computer usage or internet activity to another.  (computer spyware tracking programs installed without the user's knowledge or consent).  Publishing attorney has not had occasion to defend a computer spyware felony stalking case, nor is he aware of any specific case in which such criminal charges have been initiated.  Although Sullivan may be a harbinger, current statutory language does not specifically identify surreptitious spyware installation or monitoring as prohibited conduct, and may not be sufficient to support a felony stalking conviction.  Additional legal research would be required for a more definitive opinion regarding defense of this issue.

 

   Web beacons, aka web bugs, have become standard practice in many commercial websites, including reputable companies.  Web bugs are installed surreptitiously without the user's knowledge or consent and without benefit of court order - court scrutiny.  Web bugs may track computer usage or internet activity.  Commercial software is available to block or find and delete web bugs which are considered by many in the computer industry to be spyware. 

   An attorney naturally queries the difference between tracking spyware surreptitiously installed by a commercial enterprise and tracking spyware surreptitiously installed to track computer or internet activity of someone with whom the installing person (alleged stalker) has had a continuing relationship.  Put another way, is the enabling language of CRS 18-9-111(4)(a) sufficient to withstand a constitutional equal protection challenge?

Generally speaking, the maxim applies which William Shakespeare set forth in Merchant of Venice:
      "truth will come to light... at the length truth will out"   which has come to be known as:   "over time, the truth will out"
Be patient, not a criminal law case of first impression or test case like Sullivan.
If there is a need to quickly determine facts, hire a reputable private investigator.

 

        Destruction of joint or marital property may result in criminal mischief charges.

Refer to People v. Sullivan, 53 P.3d 1181 (Colo.App. 2002)
        arson conviction upheld for burning wife’s marital property clothing

Prior to and during litigation proceedings, be respectful of joint property or marital property.
        This would be particularly applicable regarding that claimed by your spouse to be his or her property. 

 

        Domestic abuse retraining order.  If facts support a criminal conviction, facts will support a domestic abuse restraining order. 

 

        Abuse can occur in any gender, race, social or economic background.

 

        Child Abuse.  By law, child abuse reported to medical, therapy, social work or school professionals must be reported by them to DHS or law enforcement.  Based upon the statutory attorney-client privilege, an attorney may not disclose abuse without the client's your consent.

 

        Child abuse or domestic abuse will not be tolerated by the courts.  By law prior criminal charges, abuse injunctive proceedings and child abuse dependency and neglect proceedings must be disclosed in writing to the judge at the time of filing the divorce.  The DHS maintains a statewide identification central registry of all reported child abuse.  The Colorado Bureau of Investigation (CBI) maintains a statewide central registry identifying domestic abusers (civil injunctions and criminal charges).  These records have major impact upon a person's future.  Injury or criminal charges may result from actions.  Use reason, logic and self-control when separating - not emotional reaction.

 

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


RECOVERY WORKSHOPS
relevant if you grieve the loss of a relationship

Sunrise United Methodist Church  
2655 Briargate Blvd.
Colorado Springs, CO  80920-3884
Phone: (719) 598-7013
email Pastor Emory G. Cowan, Jr. Ph.D.

First Presbyterian Church
219 East Bijou
Colorado Springs, CO  80903-1392
Phone: (719) 471-3763
Relationship Recovery Workshop

First United Methodist Church
420 North Nevada Ave.
Colorado Springs, CO  80903-1285
Phone: (719) 471-8522

Woodmen Valley Chapel
Phone: (719) 599-8652
477 Woodmen Road
Colorado Springs, CO  80919-1984

        It is advisable for everyone who undergoes breakup of a marriage or other significant relationship to attend a recovery workshop.  Attendance may likely assist you with grief and recovery.  Call for details on class dates and times.  I understand recovery workshops are also offered by the Catholic Church and Lutheran Church.  Others likely exist which are not listed here.  To my understanding, classes are free or inexpensive and the major focus is upon healing grief, not religion.  All it takes is one night a week for about 8 weeks.  Who knows, even if initially you don't think it is worthwhile, you may learn something.


REMEDIAL QUICK LINKS
THERAPY & TREATMENT * CLINICS * FORMS * SELF HELP
refer to links for information

ALCOHOL
Alcoholics Anonymous - AA Service Center
    refer to below links for completion forms
Alcoholism FAQs - Not Sponsored by AA

Lighthouse - Detoxification

Alcohol & Drug Residential Rehab Treatment
    RESADA
    governmentally subsidized - sliding scale cost
 
Alcohol Ed & Therapy Treatment Agencies
Alcohol Education Classes
     DUI, DEAC or DWAI
Alcohol Education Classes - MIP

DRUGS
McMaster Clinic
RESADA
    governmentally subsidized - sliding scale cost
In-Patient Drug Rehab

MENTAL HEALTH
Pikes Peak Mental Health has  crisis hotline
    and therapy available to families, individuals or
    children on sliding scale based upon income.

OTHER EDUCATION
Domestic Violence - Anger Management - Conflict Resolution
STD - HIV Awareness Class
Petty Theft Classes
Traffic Safety Classes

PARENTING CLASS - COURT

SELF HELP

CLINICS

FORMS

OTHER RESOURCES
Counseling, Treatment & Resources
Resources - adults and teens
Resources - parenting and children
Department of Human Services (DHS)
    contact numbers crisis, abuse, financial aid,
    food stamps and child care
 
 

SAFE HOUSE
T*E*S*S*A and Women's Resources
Occupational and therapy counseling is also available plus information on other agencies.
 

        Alcoholism or drug addiction can occur at any age, socio-economic background, race or religion.  Think it can't happen to you or a loved one?  -  think again.  As with other illnesses, dependency doesn't care who are, what you are, how old you are, or where you come from.  If client, loved one or opposing parent has an alcohol or drug problem, he / she  should also immediately commence attending at least 1 AA or NA meeting per week. Address the problem and get it under control before it has a chance to destroy the quality of life.  Support is available.


 

INDEPENDENT SERVICE PROVIDERS

 

        Where relevant, attorney utilizes the services of independent professionals.  Rates of independent providers of professional services change periodically and billings are not controlled by counsel.

 

        If retained by counsel as an agent of the attorney, such independent service providers are protected and bound by the attorney-client privilege and the attorney work product doctrine.  If retained privately by the client, no such agency or confidentiality exists.

 
PROCESS SERVICE PRIVATE INVESTIGATION LABORATORIES TRANSCRIPTION
APPRAISERS - PERSONAL PROPERTY APPRAISERS - MOTOR VEHICLES
APPRAISERS - REAL PROPERTY REAL ESTATE BROKERS
COURT REPORTERS - STENOGRAPHERS MEDIATORS

 


DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
DO I NEED AN ATTORNEY?

Do I need an attorney?

Probably time to loosen the pocket book and hire a family law attorney.

Other than short term marriage - no assets and no kids, family law matters frequently have long term consequences and can have significant impact upon children as well as finances.  You may retain my services or the services of another attorney, but hire competent counsel. 

   

Client Ambivalence

It is normal for persons contemplating dissolution of marriage to vacillate between wanting to revive the marriage and to make a permanent separation.

An attorney's job is to prepare & file pleadings, then pursue the lawsuit to final orders which end the marriage.  A lawyer is not a marriage counselor.

Please make the determination to file for dissolution of marriage and see the case through to final orders before calling.  Additionally, while the attorney will assist in assessing the viability of client's goals, before contacting an attorney each prospective client should have a basic plan - a common sense or realistic "wish list."

   

Promissory Note

Promissory Note - evidence debt to family or friends - financial assistance
1 Page - Approximate Size 16 KB - no password - access unrestricted

ADOBE FREE
 DOWNLOAD

Document Checklist

A quick checklist of documents and information to gather for your litigation
5 Pages - Approximate Size 40 KB - no password - access unrestricted

ADOBE FREE
 DOWNLOAD

Retainer Data Form

Retainer data sheet - all cases - information to prepare a retainer agreement
1 Page - Approximate Size 29 KB - no password - access unrestricted
          with a call, this information may also be provided by phone

ADOBE FREE
 DOWNLOAD

Fact Sheet - General

Fact sheet - all cases - facts relevant to the client's case
56 Pages - Approximate Size 225 KB - access restricted by password

ADOBE FREE
 DOWNLOAD

Fact Sheet - Children

Fact sheet - children - facts relevant to the client's case with children
26 Pages - Approximate Size 82 KB - access restricted by password

ADOBE FREE
 DOWNLOAD
  Refer to Document Management regarding format of documents provided to attorney.
This could save you significant costs.
 
Divorce Legal Separation Support Enforcement
Child Support Paternity Step Parent Adoption Restraining Orders
Debt Collection Sealing Civil Records Sealing Criminal Records Criminal & Traffic Defense

 


 
FAMILY LAW PRACTICALITIES
GENERAL CONSIDERATIONS - DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
 

        Attorney was a single parent who raised his daughter alone from infancy through emancipation.  I walked the mile at 3 a.m. and am familiar with single parenting issues from tender years to adulthood, as well as the cost of raising a child.  It is irrelevant whether an attorney's client is husband or wife, petitioner or respondent.  I am most willing to assist with a just and fair resolution and termination of your marriage.  However, I will not provide representation in legal proceedings where the client's goal is to punish the spouse as a vendetta.
 
        Family law cases should commence seeking the ballpark of reason - otherwise known as a win-win solution as best as can be achieved under the circumstances.  Although that should be the first step, sometimes it is not possible.  If the opposing party is unreasonable or litigation is otherwise required, then it's time to litigate.  That means case preparation - both factual and legal research to effectively present the client's case to the court.  The magistrate's or judge's polestars will be the best interest of the children and fundamental fairness under the facts and circumstances.  Mere lip service to these principles is not sufficient, but reasonable or legitimate requests for relief are likely to be granted in court orders.
 
                Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event client and spouse reconcile, earned fees and expended costs will not be refunded.  Client should be certain he * she actually desires a dissolution of marriage or legal separation before commencing litigation.  Client should be certain he * she actually desires to terminate the marriage before commencing litigation.
 
        To a large degree, the conduct of client and spouse and the ability or inability to agree will determine the final amount of fees and costs.  No two cases are the same.  Resolving emotions in counseling or elsewhere and removing emotions from litigation will significantly reduce legal expenses.
 
        In family law cases it is common for the client to provide numerous and perhaps voluminous documents to attorney during representation.  Please refer to Document Management regarding organization and format of documents which client provides to attorney  This will save the client money in attorney fees and costs.
 
        The more complex the case or as justiciable issues increase, fees and costs increase.  This is a reality no matter which attorney a prospective client hires.  You are welcome to review Alternatives to Private Counsel - Other Options and visit with any number of attorneys.  In family law matters, it is especially important that the client be comfortable from the outset with the attorney he or she retains and understand the attorney's billing structure.

 

Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 


 
 

 

ATTORNEY'S FEES AND COSTS
DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
Robert D. Gustafson  *  Attorney at Law  *  Colorado Springs Family Law Practice 30+ Years

TRUST DEPOSIT TO RETAIN ATTORNEY:  $4,500
HOURLY FEE RATE POTENTIAL COSTS
 
map * travel policy - time & expenses * travel rates click jitney for travel tables
outside El Paso County
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Due to the nature of this legal matter, attorney offers only an hourly attorney fee structure; attorney flat fees will not be offered.  Time expended determines fees.  Litigation costs (out of pocket expenses) are not included in attorney fees - client's responsibility.  At the time of the first visit, a prospective client will be quoted an initial trust deposit to retain which will be honored for a period of seven (7) days, after which quotes are subject to change without notice if this office has not been retained.  Attorney is a sole practitioner with need to manage his caseload.  Pending proposed client acceptance and payment, retainer agreement proposals are subject to withdrawal.  Attorney reserves the right to decline any case.  Refer to:  a) first consultation  b) attorney fees * costs * billings page  c) additional information.

 

 

attorney does not accept installment payments  *  full payment is due at the time attorney is retained  *  major charge cards accepted

 

trust deposit overage - refunded at case conclusion   **   undercapitalization - immediate trust deposit required
counsel does not start a family law case with a lower trust deposit regardless of client's statements re easy settlement vs. court fight
adequate funding initially required  **  parties determine hourly billing & expenses based upon issues presented as the case progresses
Attorney Fees and Costs Regarding Related Matters
POST DECREE ENFORCEMENT MODIFICATION PATERNITY RESTRAINING ORDERS

 

litigation costs are client's responsibility  **  professional services or expert witnesses will significantly effect expenditures
additional cost deposit may be requested as case preparation proceeds & anticipated litigation expenses solidify

 

filing fees and court costs change with regularity ** courts & government change website locations with regularity ** §§ may be obsolete.
refer to judicial site fees & costs link - even that link may become obsolete quickly
Court Filing Fees  (parenting class difference) With Children Without Children
Petitioner - Dissolution of Marriage $234.00 $194.00
Petitioner - Legal Separation $229.00 $189.00
Respondent - either dissolution of marriage or legal separation $  80.00 $  80.00
Registration of Foreign Decree - Divorce or Custody $151.00 $151.00
Petition for Allocation of Parental Responsibilities $186.00 + $40 Class = $226.00 $  80.00
Intervenor Third Party Filing $145.00
Motion to Modify - 60 days or more after initial order $  95.00 $  95.00
Motion to Convert Legal Separation to Dissolution of Marriage $100.00 $100.00
ADR - Alternate Dispute Resolution - Mediation (fee per party) $100.00 minimum $100.00 minimum
Birth Certificate
         paternity disputed - husband not the father
         Colorado $  35.00
         Other states each set their own fees
Background Search - cost per parent search Price Price
DMV Out of State Driving Record  - per parent search Varies Varies
Court records search & copy costs (actual may be more or less) $  10.00 $  10.00
Copy expense at courthouse - files (estimate - may vary) $  10.00 $  10.00
Final decree & support order certified copies at courthouse - cost per certification $  20.00 each $  20.00 each
On-line legal research - depends upon research issues Varies Varies
Private Investigator initial retainer - 
        variable - missing birth parent
$______ $______
Process service expense - 
        depends upon location of birth parent
$______ $______
Travel time and expenses 
        if case outside Colorado Springs
Rates Rates

CAVEAT: Not all above costs will be relevant to any given case, and additional expenses not identified may be incurred in any individual case.  Costs quoted are subject to change by independent providers; actual costs paid will be billed.  limited search pricing

litigation costs fluctuate - above may be obsolete - fees & costs assessed by courts or third party providers are not within attorney control
PARTIAL LIST OF POTENTIAL COSTS
out of pocket costs are the responsibility of the client
link to Colorado Judicial Branch website
current costs information published by state
COLORADO STATE COURT COSTS
 

Client authorization is obtained for any large cost expense.  Final expenditure may run less or client may periodically be asked for additional amounts to be deposited to trust if fees and costs will exceed previous deposits. 

Client will be provided with a trust accounting and itemized billing statement when there has been activity on the account.  At the end of each case, a detailed accounting summary is provided and remaining trust proceeds are refunded.

trust deposit for anticipated fees & costs is due when retained

attorney does not accept installment payments

regular billings are scheduled on the 1st and 15th
payment not received as agreed = representation withdrawn

INITIAL DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE CONSIDERATIONS

        Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event client and spouse reconcile, earned fees and expended costs will not be refunded.  Client should be certain he * she actually desires a dissolution of marriage or legal separation before commencing litigation.

        To a large degree, the conduct of client and spouse and the ability or inability to agree will determine the final amount of fees and costs.  No two cases are the same.  Resolving emotions in counseling or elsewhere and removing emotions from litigation will significantly reduce legal expenses.

        In family law cases it is common for the client to provide numerous and perhaps voluminous documents to attorney during representation.  Please refer to Document Management regarding organization and format of documents which client provides to attorney.  This will save the client money in attorney fees and costs.

 
 
************************* ************************* *************************
  
 
 

ATTORNEY'S FEES AND COSTS
DISSOLUTION POST DECREE  **  ENFORCEMENT
Robert D. Gustafson  *  Attorney at Law  *  Colorado Springs Family Law Practice 30+ Years

HOURLY FEE RATE
 
TRUST DEPOSIT TO RETAIN ATTORNEY
to be determined after consultation
SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT
SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT FEES
 
map * travel policy - time & expenses * travel rates click jitney for travel tables
outside El Paso County
 
 
 
 

After consultation and prior to commencement of representation, the attorney will quote the amount requested as a trust deposit against which attorney's fees and costs may be billed.  The requested trust deposit will be dependent upon the facts and circumstances of your post decree case.  Attorney does not offer contingency (percentage) fees regarding support enforcement.  Because post decree enforcement can cover such a wide range of issues, it is not possible to provide a blind common trust deposit request.  That could only be quoted after consultation.  Initial trust deposit for support enforcement or property / debt enforcement can be estimated.  Refer to support enforcement and support enforcement fees / costs links above.

Costs: refer above; costs are dependent upon relief sought  - additional costs may be incurred and others will be irrelevant
trust deposit overage - refunded at case conclusion   **   undercapitalization - immediate trust deposit required
litigation costs are client's responsibility  **  professional services or expert witnesses will significantly effect expenditures
DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE POST DECREE ENFORCEMENT CONSIDERATIONS

     Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event of dismissal by client or the ex-spouse, earned fees and expended costs will not be refunded.  Bear in mind, when one parent opens the Pandora's Box of enforcement, other issues will also likely become subject to litigation.  Adage - the best defense is a good offense.  Client should be certain he / she actually desires to enforce before commencing post decree litigation.

     To a large degree, the conduct of client & ex-spouse and the ability or inability to agree will determine the final amount of fees and costs.  No two cases are the same.  Resolving emotions in counseling or elsewhere and removing emotions from litigation will significantly reduce legal expenses.

 
 
************************* ************************* *************************
 
 
 

ATTORNEY'S FEES AND COSTS
DISSOLUTION POST DECREE  **  MODIFICATION
Robert D. Gustafson  *  Attorney at Law  *  Colorado Springs Family Law Practice 30+ Years

HOURLY FEE RATE
 
TRUST DEPOSIT TO RETAIN ATTORNEY
to be determined after consultation
 
map * travel policy - time & expenses * travel rates click jitney for travel tables
outside El Paso County
 
 
 
 

After consultation and prior to commencement of representation, the attorney will quote the amount requested as a trust deposit against which attorney's fees and costs may be billed.  The requested trust deposit will be dependent upon the facts and circumstances of your post decree case.  Because post decree modification can cover such a wide range of issues, it is not possible to provide a blind common trust deposit request.  That could only be quoted after consultation.

Costs: refer above; costs are dependent upon relief sought  - additional costs may be incurred and others will be irrelevant
trust deposit overage - refunded at case conclusion   **   undercapitalization - immediate trust deposit required
litigation costs are client's responsibility  **  professional services or expert witnesses will significantly effect expenditures
DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE POST DECREE MODIFICATION CONSIDERATIONS

     Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event of dismissal by client or the ex-spouse, earned fees and expended costs will not be refunded.  Bear in mind, when one party opens Pandora's Box, other issues will also likely become subject to litigation.  Client should be certain he / she actually desires a modification before commencing post decree litigation.

     To a large degree, the conduct of client & ex-spouse and the ability or inability to agree will determine the final amount of fees and costs.  No two cases are the same.  Resolving emotions in counseling or elsewhere and removing emotions from litigation will significantly reduce legal expenses.

 
 
************************* ************************* *************************
 
 
 

ATTORNEY'S FEES AND COSTS
DOMESTIC ABUSE  **  CHILD ABUSE  **  RESTRAINING ORDERS
Robert D. Gustafson  *  Attorney at Law  *  Colorado Springs Family Law Practice 30+ Years

HOURLY FEE RATE
 
TRUST DEPOSIT TO RETAIN ATTORNEY
to be determined after consultation
CONSIDERATIONS
 
 
map * travel policy - time & expenses * travel rates click jitney for travel tables
outside El Paso County
 
 
 
 

Motion for domestic abuse or child abuse restraining orders may be filed in the dissolution of marriage action, or a separate County Court injunction lawsuit may be commenced.  If filed in the dissolution case, such restraining orders statutorily must expire within a stated time after final decree of dissolution of marriage.  County Court domestic abuse restraining orders may be made permanent and may be sought in an independent domestic abuse restraining orders civil action.  Either way, preparation time will be necessitated. 

It takes less time to prepare a motion for restraining orders in the dissolution of marriage action than to commence an independent suit in County Court.  Hourly fees will be billed in the dissolution case for restraining orders, or a flat fee is offered in a County Court civil case.  However the client proceeds, a trust deposit would be required to secure anticipated attorney fees and PRO case costs.  Trust deposit would be quoted during consultation; deposit will be dependent upon the facts and circumstances of your issues and relief sought.

Costs: refer above; costs are dependent upon relief sought  - additional costs may be incurred and others will be irrelevant
trust deposit overage - refunded at case conclusion   **   undercapitalization - immediate trust deposit required
litigation costs are client's responsibility  **  professional services or expert witnesses will significantly effect expenditures
PRO CONSIDERATIONS

     Domestic abuse restraining order issues are non-negotiable.  Restraining order enters or it doesn't - contested hearing is required.  If the case involves allegations of prior conviction or misconduct to be introduced by either party for a collateral purpose, the attorney would need to know more about the facts and circumstances before offering a hearing flat fee or quoting a trust deposit request for anticipated costs.

     Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event of dismissal by client or the spouse, earned fees & expended costs will not be refunded.  Bear in mind, when one party opens the restraining orders Pandora's Box, it is likely demand will be made by the opposing spouse for entry of a reciprocal restraining order against the moving party, and other issues will also likely become subject to litigation.  Adage: "the best defense is a good offense" and gut deep negative emotion will likely be evoked.  Client should be certain he / she actually desires to travel this road before commencing domestic abuse restraining order proceedings.

 

Domestic abuse restraining orders have very serious, long term consequences well beyond the restrictions contained in any protective order.

 

The restrained person will be added to the CBI central registry as a spouse abuser.  If child abuse is found, the restrained person will be added to the DHS TRAILS child abuser database.

 

Background check examples: post secondary educational program acceptance, employment, security clearance, professional licensing CRS 24-72-305.4, volunteering at a child's or grandchild's school, daycare or social group activities such as boyscouts, girlscouts, etc. CRS 24-72-305.3, caregiver functions, CRS 24-72-305.3, foreign travel visa, firearm possession or ownership (gun collection, hunting or target practice) Federal Brady Bill, concealed weapon permit - this mentions only a few common possibilities.

 

Adoptions - step parent adoption, relative adoption or straight adoption - mandatory background checks of DHS TRAILS and fingerprint based background checks of CBI and FBI are required.

 

Every arrest with jailhouse booking, and every domestic violence criminal case court filing, and every domestic abuse restraining order civil case court filing results in a report to the Colorado Bureau of Investigation CBI Central Registry.  Background check of this database can be conducted by anyone at any time and records are not difficult to find.  State judicial records can be checked via LexisNexis or CoCourts and Denver Court.  Municipal courts are not yet on-line, but accessible to the public with a phone call or written request under the Colorado Open Records Act - CRS 24-72-200.1, et. seq. or the Colorado Criminal Justice Records Act - CRS 24-72-301, et. seq.  See also Colorado driving records, CBI records check database, DHS Trails Check.  This doesn't being to touch government law enforcement records access via CBI CCIC or FBI NCIC rap sheets.

 

Ultimately, sealing civil court records will likely be quite important to a restrained person or person against whom such domestic abuse allegations were made.  Refer to the sealing difficulties noted in that webpage.  If domestic violence criminal charges are relevant, refer to link and to sealing criminal justice records.

 

Domestic abuse restraining orders are indeed a "can of worms" or "Pandora's Box" and may turn upon the person seeking protection if a reciprocal restraining order is sought or granted.  Intent is not to dissuade anyone from seeking restraining order protection, but to provide a brief education in order that a prospective client doesn't start something, then later say, "Oh, I didn't realize, know or understand the seriousness and possible consequences."

 

     When retained, counsel will not hesitate to seek or to defend a restraining order matter.  However, counsel will not seek a restraining order unless justified by a factual basis - put another way, counsel will not participate in a vendetta to needlessly harm a spouse or significant other, current or former relationship.  The collateral consequences are just too serious to engage in emotionally based retribution where not factually warranted.

 
 
************************* *************************
 
FIRST CONSULTATION ACCOUNTING STRUCTURE HOURLY FEES COSTS
FEES & COSTS SECURITY TRUST ACCOUNT TRAVEL WITHDRAWAL - TERMINATION
CLIENT DUTY TO DISCLOSE OMISSION  NON-DISCLOSURE ALTERNATIVES
ATTORNEY SELECTION RETAINING GUSTAFSON ADVICE BY LAYMEN

Finally, cheer up. You have a new life in front of you. 
Thank you for considering my services; I appreciate your inquiry.


 
ATTORNEY TRADE AREA & TRAVEL
OUTSIDE EL PASO COUNTY
 
GEOGRAPHIC DISTANCE
ECONOMIC CONSIDERATIONS

 
 
Colorado is a big state.  Easy communication access via
internet, email and toll free phone doesn't change that fact.
 

COURTS IN OTHER COUNTIES

TRAVEL  RATES & COSTS ITEMIZED
TRAVEL TIME  *  MILEAGE  *  EXPENSE

Attorney is very willing to travel outside the Colorado Springs area to present or defend a case, but please be aware travel time, mileage and expense would apply.  If you are from out of state or are unfamiliar with Colorado geography, refer to the map to determine where Colorado Springs is located in relation to the county of your court case or hearing.

Colorado MAP
Southern Colorado Area

If travel is necessary, a trust deposit would be required to cover anticipated travel time, mileage & expenses.  If it is not economically justifiable to retain my services with travel, please contact counsel in the locale of your case.

COUNTIES

CITIES / TOWNS

El Paso County

Colorado Springs / Manitou Springs / Fountain

Chaffee County

Salida

I welcome new cases.  Intent is not to be harsh
or to discard potential new business, but to be practical.
Crowley County

Ordway

Custer County Westcliffe Metro Denver Area
Douglas County Castle Rock COUNTIES CITIES / TOWNS
Elbert County Kiowa / Simla City and County of Denver Denver
Fremont County Canon City / Florence / Penrose Adams County Brighton Thornton Federal Heights
Huerfano County Walsenburg Arapahoe County Littleton / Centennial / Englewood
Las Animas County Trinidad Arapahoe County - East Aurora
Lincoln County Hugo (county seat) / Limon Broomfield County Broomfield
Otero County La Junta Gilpin County Blackhawk / Central City
Park County Fairplay Jefferson County Golden / Wheat Ridge
Pueblo County Pueblo
Teller County Cripple Creek / Woodland Park

WHERE CAN I FIND THE LAW?
Self Help - Free Links to Legal Research
Free Self-Help Clinics
Colorado Courts - Forms - Dissolution, Paternity, Support & Family - Index & Download
Colorado Courts - Forms - Restraining Orders Domestic Abuse - Index & Download
The above links are provided as a public service, but if you attempt "do it yourself" dissolution
please refer to attorney policy

 

BEFORE USING ANY INFORMATION IN THIS WEBSITE, PLEASE REFER TO BELOW LINKS
NOTICE AND DISCLAIMER
Notice to Website Visitors

please read before using website
ATTORNEY ETHICS & CLIENT DISCLOSURES
Prior Convictions or Bad Acts
important warning information before disclosure
ATTORNEY CONTACT  **  PRIVACY
Confidentiality & Privacy Policy
email, and cordless, wireless or cell phones

 

thank you for visiting my webpage
your interest in my services is appreciated

Adobe Acrobat Reader version 5 or later is required to view .pdf files  Free Download

 
please feel free to call or email if you are a client or are seeking representation  
Major Charge Cards Accepted
Third Party Payment Authorization
charge card merchant discount

email counsel

 
INITIAL CONSULTATION TERMS
not an offer for legal advice - refer to link
attorney is a sole practitioner with need to manage his caseload
attorney reserves the right to decline any legal matter
 

    PRIMARY WEBSITE  

HOMEPAGE

   FAMILY LAW

 
GUSTAFSON LAW OFFICE TOPICAL WEBSITES
 
COLORADO DUI DEFENSE - DWAI & DEAC COLORADO DRUNK DRIVING DEFENSE MIP - UNDERAGE ALCOHOL
TRAFFIC TICKET DEFENSE HIT AND RUN DEFENSE DRIVING UNDER RESTRAINT COLORADO SPEEDING TICKET DEFENSE
COLORADO DRIVER LICENSE DEFENSE COLORADO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DEFENSE SHOPLIFTING & THEFT DEFENSE
COLORADO SPRINGS PROSTITUTION DEFENSE NUISANCE FORFEITURE DEFENSE COLORADO CRIMINAL DEFENSE
SEALING COLORADO CRIMINAL RECORDS COLORADO DIVORCE LEGAL SEPARATION DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE
SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT CHILD SUPPORT STEP-PARENT ADOPTION GRANDPARENT ADOPTION PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
RESTRAINING ORDERS COLORADO FAMILY LAW DEBT COLLECTION PRIVATE INVESTIGATORS

 
MAJOR SEARCH ENGINES
AltaVista AOL Search Ask Jeeves aka Teoma Bing - Microsoft Network
Dogpile Excite Google InfoSeek - Go Lycos
 Netscape Search WebCrawler Yahoo!
 
Topical Website Copyright © 2004 - All Rights Reserved - Document Revised November 06, 2011
mountains photo image, attorney photo image & law office logo copyright © Robert D. Gustafson - all rights reserved - no copyright claimed to other images
Topical Website Initial Publication Date: January 26, 2004-  Republication Date: May 24, 2006
 
   

Serving Colorado Springs Area Zip Codes

   
80918 80920 80919 80917 80915 80908 80132 80909 80913 80916 80921 80922 80925 80901 80902 80903 80904 80905 80906 80907 80910 80911 80912 80914 80921 80926 80928 80929 80930 80931 80933 80934 80935 80936 80937 80940 80941 80942 80943 80944 80945 80946 80947 80949 80950 80960 80962 80970 80977 80995 90997
 

Colorado Springs, dissolution of marriage, Colorado Springs dissolution of marriage, dissolution of marriage Colorado Springs, Colorado dissolution of marriage, dissolution of marriage Colorado, Colorado, invalidity, declaration of invalidity, annulment, common law marriage, allocation of parental responsibilities, allocation, parental responsibilities, parental responsibility, child, children, custody, child custody, parenting time, visitation, spousal maintenance, alimony, child support, child support enforcement, spousal maintenance enforcement, alimony enforcement, domestic violence, domestic abuse, restraining order, paternity, legal parentage, adoption, family law, Colorado state courts, lawyer, attorney

 
Terms of First Consultation


FIND A LAWYER ANYWHERE

HomePage Top
Homepage Index
Maps to Attorney
Cams & Driving Directions to Attorney

 

Hit Counter